What Is Love

End of life care is never easy or simple.  No matter how long you have been with your pet, whether it is months or years, it is never enough.  No only are you trying to decide the most compassionate course of action, you also have to consider that little thing that illness often drains: finances.  The already heavy burden of decision now is clouded by even considering putting a "price" on your relationship. (Heavey sigh)

Trying to extend life is rarely inexpensive.  Many times owners try to equate the deepness of the love with the deepness of the pocketbook.  Let's set something straight right now; love is not about how much you can spend on your pet.  While seeing how little you can spend and the pet manages to survive won't win you any metals either, love should be measured in the everyday kindnesses.

No one has escaped this economy.  Many of our clients who walk through the door and say "Do whatever she needs, doc" are now saying "Can I have an estimate first" and some even say (GASP) "No" to services.  These people still love their pets deeply.  They won't let them suffer, but sometimes they have to set limits.

Love is measured in the scratches behind the ears, the tosses of the ball, the tasty, wonderful treats, the furry mouse covered in catnip.  It is measured by how often we stop what we are doing and spend a few precious moments being unproductive and cuddling our little furries.  

We're not judging you by your financial statements.  You need to stop also.  Give yourself permission to do the best that you can.  Sometimes that decision is too end your pet's suffering, even when the checking account must surrender before medicine must.  If it comes from a place of love and commitment that is what is important.  Yes, love is measured in everyday kindnesses.

chris